I had been working in the IT industry for several years. Currently, I am looking for a change in job. However, I am not doing well in the interviews, even though I am technically competent. Can you please suggest something to fix this failure attitudes and behavior?
- Think about all those interviews where you haven’t done well. Keep on thinking the feelings and emotions as well as thoughts associated with them. Tap on yourself. Keep tapping until you release all those negatives.
- Now, think about all those interviews where you have done well. Keep on thinking the feelings and emotions as well as thoughts associated with them. Tap on yourself. Keep tapping until you feel very comfortable about interviews, feeling self-confident and successful.
Do this exercise for at least 10 days and on those days you are appearing for an interview.
(From Multi Dimensional Healing June 27 Workshop)
Simple way of tapping:
Pull the entire 10 fingers one at a time as well as the gamut point (it’s the hollow place between the front little and ring fingers).
For any type of problem, pull each finger and tap on gamut, and affirm “I accept myself totally”. What does the affirmation means? It means that I accept my life situation, the event, as well as my feelings and my thoughts.
How to make sure we are not influenced by a situation?
Situation is one percent, our reaction is 99%. It becomes bothersome or problematic because of our own mind.
You are watching an accident on the road. A person riding a motor cycle had met with an accident. The mother of the person, who was watching it happen, will react more strongly than others. Same event but reactions are different.
Our habit is to react emotionally. If we don’t have connection to the situation, I am not affected. Who gives this link? Isn’t it the mind?
If you do tapping then you will came out of the panic situation. Why should you come out? Then you can help, as you have a calm and tranquil mind. You will react calmly and do the necessary. Instead we overreact and spoil the whole thing.
Chitra had to attend to her daily Yoga class in Annai Yoga Center. She was worried whether her son, who is preparing for a professional exam, will study for his exam or watch TV.
She did tapping to release her tension. She was relieved after few rounds of tapping.
When she reached home, her son remarked he felt so free that he was able to concentrate on his studies J
We are all connected. What we think about others – especially children, affects them. So beware of what you think about your children.
In one of the Naran S. Balakumar’s class on EFT, a woman complained that her son has stopped going to school. Nothing could make him to attend the school again.
Naran asked her to do tapping during the class. She did tapping for five minutes. Then, she repeated it in the evening too.
Next day, her son went to school without any prompting.
In another instance, a mother complained that her daughter is not concentrating on her studies. Naran asked her to do EFT for the feelings and the thoughts that she has about her daughter.
Within a few days of tapping, she started studying.
Moral of the story: We are all connected
A child aged 10 years old, had a meeting with Naran S. Balakumar, regarding a problem that she could not handle by herself.
Naran: What is going on?
Child: I am afraid that my School Principal will punish me, because my friend is accusing me, that I had stolen her money.
Naran: Did you steal the money?
Child: No, I did not.
Naran: Why cannot you convince your principal that you did not steal the money?
Child: No, I will not be able to that. My fear is that tomorrow my Principal will call me during the prayers, in front of all the school students. Then he will punish me, without doing an enquiry.
Naran: What do you want to happen?
Child: This issue should not come up in the prayer meeting.
Naran, S. Balakumar did tapping on her, until she was 100% relieved from her thoughts and fears.
Feedback: For some reason, the meeting did not take place! This will not be a surprise, if you are an ardent EFT user. Such surprises and unexpected things happen, when you use EFT.