Interesting case of an overweight person
Why I talk about so many techniques? It is because each technique works differently for different people at different times.
A 35-year-old girl is employed in an IT company.
Even though she was not married, she looked married, as she is overweight.
She will come to see me every 15 days.
I tapped on her. She also tapped at home.
Yet there was no improvement.
At the time they were looking for a groom to get her married.
I asked her, “Who is beautiful in your eyes”, for which she replied, “My sister before marriage”.
So I framed the statement:
“I choose to be as slim and beautiful as my sister before her marriage”
Within one week her marriage got fixed, because only the word marriage clicked on her mind.
After her marriage she looked the same.
She has got a child too.
She doesn’t mind being overweight anymore.
This shows that each and every word we use in tapping is important as it impacts us.
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Learn the Art of White Magic
I am suffering from problems like giddiness, palpitation, stomach, body and throat swelling from 6 months, and after taking medicines also it’s not vanishing.
One astrologer told me that one of my enemies is fussed me by doing Black Magic. For these all, I’m in very much tension now a day. And after my Marriage which was happened 34 years ago till now I always suffered from various diseases, like one disease gone, another disease takes place.
I don’t to know why it’s happening, and I am totally confused what to do for all these problems.
Your belief only spoils you.
Chant “TOGETHER BE DIVINE” regularly.
Write “QUIET MIND OPEN HEART RELAX” in a paper and keep it under the pillow.
Learn tapping (EFT) and come out of the problems.
I did not understand fully, what you have written. May you explain me deeply about this sentence –“Your belief only spoils you” and this sentence -”Learn tapping and come out of the problems”.
If you go on thinking about black magic, your very thoughts become part of your belief system and whatever you do, will impede your progress.
Find out what thoughts prevent your progress? Release them as if they were not yours, because you are not your thoughts. Thoughts are produced by you and you can release them also, when needed. Find out which behavior of yours keeps you in the same problems.
If you want health, what prevents you from attaining this?
Simple questions like this will change your life.
When you start analyzing yourself, you will come to know that you are the creator of your life. Nobody else is responsible for our present Life.
If you think that somebody can spoil your life instead of blaming and criticizing him, find out ways and means by which you can change him.
Unfortunately when the mind is not in my control, how can you change the mind of the other person?
As long as we harbor the idea that we’re powerless in mending our life, as long as we don’t take steps to correct the pattern of thinking, it is impossible to move forward in life.
How long are we going to blame others?
How long are we going to harbor anger and resentment?
How long are we going to carry on our life without the thought of surrendering to the one Almighty, who is behind not only you but also others?
When will we fill our heart with love and love only and be loving?
When are we going to stop our begging love from others and start seeking love from the one who is ever ready to offer himself fully?
Life is a Sadhana (learning to master).
Life is Trust in Divine.
Life is Courage.
Life is Gratitude.
Life is Perseverance.
Persevere to become love!!!
EFT or Tapping is the technique to come out of our emotions. Search the internet on EFT.
There is no second chance in marriage
Referring the article “Remove negatives Reinforce positives” about handling a job interview using EFT (tapping) the client has the following discussion with Naran:
Interview is one thing. I have only one wife and I don’t have prior experience either. This is my first and last marriage. How do I achieve harmony in my marriage, when I found nothing of that sort from day one of my marriage?
What qualities represent harmony for you?
Peace and Happiness are the two qualities that signify harmony for me. If I find them in my marriage then I would say I have harmony in my marriage.
Where else in your life you have found peace?
If I sit by the stream in my native village, which flows from a nearby mountain, I will find peace. The whole area is nothing but trees or green bushes. Even if they are not crowded, they are pleasant and soothing.
Anyway Green represents harmony.
Take a picture of that stream or any stream that gives you that peace.
Keep the picture on the left hand, tap continuously until that feeling gets strongly registered in the mind.
What represents happiness for you?
It is our joint family gathering during festival days. Of course we don’t meet any more and I don’t have a picture either.
I am sure you can hook into those memories of happiness once again. Just keep thinking of those happy memories and tap.
Now the feeling of happiness has come to you.
Now, affirm, “I find harmony in my married life’ for as many times as possible.
Govind was about to learn car driving and he was scared. He affirmed, ‘Even though I am afraid of learning car driving, I choose to learn it in the same way I learnt scooter riding’. In fact, he successfully learnt car driving without anybody’s help.
In the case of a job interview, we would have some instances where we have done well. So it is easier for affirmations to work. In the case of marriage, where we can’t bring a required emotional point of reference, then this technique of NLP can be employed.