Interesting case of an overweight person

Why I talk about so many techniques? It is because each technique works differently for different people at different times.

A 35-year-old girl is employed in an IT company.

Even though she was not married, she looked married, as she is overweight.

She will come to see me every 15 days.

I tapped on her. She also tapped at home.

Yet there was no improvement.

At the time they were looking for a groom to get her married.

I asked her, “Who is beautiful in your eyes”, for which she replied, “My sister before marriage”.

So I framed the statement:

“I choose to be as slim and beautiful as my sister before her marriage”

Within one week her marriage got fixed, because only the word marriage clicked on her mind.

After her marriage she looked the same.

She has got a child too.

She doesn’t mind being overweight anymore.

This shows that each and every word we use in tapping is important as it impacts us.

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About Elsol

Naran balakumar is a herbalist practising bach flower therapy for the last 21 years. Naran is a Reiki master teacher.

Posted on February 25, 2013, in Affirmation, EFT, IEIT, NLP and tagged , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , . Bookmark the permalink. 3 Comments.

  1. Dear Naran,

    I am making much progress on receiving love by doing eft for all the contributing factors to my resistance to receiving love and releasing my desire for love. Persistence was the key. Now I’m noticing all the ways in which people need love and care…I think I was blind to it before. The problem now is either I do not know how to provide love or I find that I am very reluctant to give it. For example telling my friend something nice about them. I really don’t feel like it’s necessary but I am seeing that people need affirmation. Please help me become better at giving love in a way my close friends and relatives can receive. I am also VERY reluctant to say “I love you.” Thank you.

    • i too am facing same thing,with some experinces in life I feel reluctant to say I LOVE YOU and feel smthing odd or negetive in showing love….. i WAS exactly opposite

      • GRACE,PAMI
        Everybody wants love and affection; we express that through our expression and behaviour only. Every action of ours is aimed at that only. Love is sponataneous when it is divine. When you say that people expect a word of appreciation, give it. If you view, it is not necessary, then dont think about. But if you are concerned about it, you also want approval from others.

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