There is no second chance in marriage

Referring the article “Remove negatives Reinforce positives” about handling a job interview using EFT (tapping) the client has the following discussion with Naran:

https://healbyeft.wordpress.com/2012/05/19/remove-negatives-reinforce-positives/

Client

Interview is one thing.  I have only one wife and I don’t have prior experience either. This is my first and last marriage. How do I achieve harmony in my marriage, when I found nothing of that sort from day one of my marriage?

Naran

What qualities represent harmony for you?

Client

Peace and Happiness are the two qualities that signify harmony for me. If I find them in my marriage then I would say I have harmony in my marriage.

Naran

Where else in your life you have found peace?

Client

If I sit by the stream in my native village, which flows from a nearby mountain, I will find peace. The whole area is nothing but trees or green bushes. Even if they are not crowded, they are pleasant and soothing.

Naran

Anyway Green represents harmony.

Take a picture of that stream or any stream that gives you that peace.

Keep the picture on the left hand, tap continuously until that feeling gets strongly registered in the mind.

What represents happiness for you?

Client

It is our joint family gathering during festival days. Of course we don’t meet any more and I don’t have a picture either.

Naran

I am sure you can hook into those memories of happiness once again. Just keep thinking of those happy memories and tap.

Now the feeling of happiness has come to you.

Now, affirm, “I find harmony in my married life’ for as many times as possible.

Explanation

Govind was about to learn car driving and he was scared. He affirmed, ‘Even though I am afraid of learning car driving, I choose to learn it in the same way I learnt scooter riding’. In fact, he successfully learnt car driving without anybody’s help.

In the case of a job interview, we would have some instances where we have done well. So it is easier for affirmations to work. In the case of marriage, where we can’t bring a required emotional point of reference, then this technique of NLP can be employed.

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About Naran S. Balakumar

Naran balakumar is a herbalist practising bach flower therapy for the last 11 years. Naran is a Reiki master teacher.

Posted on August 9, 2012, in Affirmation, EFT, IEIT, NLP, Tapping and tagged , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , . Bookmark the permalink. 8 Comments.

  1. Sir I learnt scooter riding. 10 yrs back i ride nicely. i went to T nagar too. But now a days i am getting scare to take scooter even in a small lane. what can i do sir. I like to take without fear. Pls tell me

    Thanks,

    Tamilarsi.

  2. Dear Naran,
    I am going to marry a guy , he is true at heart and nice. But very very short tempered and negative about everything !
    His morning starts with negativity and ends with it …
    his job ! his life ! his relationship everything is bad according to him !!!! …….. I try to make him positive and still .. 😦

    What can I do to Help him and make him see that LIFE HAS SO MANY things to make all of us happy !!!

    Please guide me precisely about the above issue ..

    Regards,
    Soumya

  3. Dear Naran many thanks for your reply !
    But i dont live with him yet and I cant give him these meds!

    Please guide me regarding Chants !

    regards,

    Soumya

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